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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Far-Campaign9155 on 2023-09-11 17:10:09.

I’ll make this as short as possible. I(m27) married my wife(f27) 2.5 years ago and everything is was working out great for us. We both work full time, my wife works in IT and I own my car dealerships business. So the next month is my brother’s 5th yr anniversary so i decided to give a whole family a big gift. I am taking all my family( me&wife, mom&dad, brother&sis in law, my younger sister) to Goa for a nice 10 days vacation where we will celebrate their anniversary. Everyone got really happy and started planning/shopping for the trip.

Yesterday my wife asked me if her family can come to the trip I said yes they can come but they will have to pay for their own expenses. She got upset that I am not onboard with this I told her I am not saying they are not allowed to come it’s just if they come they have to pay for their own travel and I am not obligated to pay for her family. Later she accused me saying that I don’t even like her family and small argument happened. So was I the asshole here?