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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Wonderful_You_6118 on 2023-09-12 15:39:18.

I’m going to start with I don’t like my SIL Emily so I need to know if I am bias in this. She is a super heavy drinker, there have been so many events that she has ruined due to her drinking. No matter what she will bring some type of drink even if it’s a kids birthday party. I don’t think I have ever met her sober. It’s a problem. Even events we tell be their is not alcoholic beverages allowed she will bring one.

Our wedding is alcohol free for a few reason but the biggest ones are their will be a ton of children and some people at the wedding have a bad history with it ( my mother and aunt) Also it saves us money to not have an open. The invited were very clear and we also informed anyone if they do bring stuff they will be kicked out. No issue.

The wedding is in a week and my SIL came to the practice and was drinking. I’m sick of it and I overheard her talking about bringing some drink anyways since the rules are stupid. I told her I am done, if she wishes to attend we will pat her down before hand since I don’t trust her with the rule, and that she doesn’t have to go if she she doesn’t want to.

My family is on my side with this but my brother is pissed and we have been arguing constantly. He clearly thinks I am the jerk for this and I’m not backing down.