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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/DrunkyKrustyPunky on 2023-09-12 16:36:54.

Posting here because I know men be lurking. Why. WhY. wHy. Every time I’m scrolling and come across a post of a man talking about his relationship being trash and he just can’t do it anymore, it’s ALWAYS because the woman doesn’t want to fuck them everyday. “My wife has a medical condition that makes sex undesirable or uncomfortable. I haven’t had sex in a month and I’m going to die. Please tell me I’m not the monster” and all the comments are like “how shallow of her. Divorce her. Selfish bitch.” Like seriously. Do men firmly believe their dicks will fall off if they aren’t wet. Intimacy is not just sex. The difference between a friendship and a romantic relationship is not defined by sex. Take her to do something she likes, she enjoys, tell her about all the things that make you appreciate her and don’t expect some physical validation that you did something you should have already been doing in the end. We might be more inclined to initiate sex or be open about our needs if we didn’t feel it always has to end or begin with sex. It’s okay to feel like your libidos or sexual drives don’t align, but guess what buddy, if your only want for intimacy is through sex you’re going to keep running into issues. It’s you. Not her.