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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Prudent-Warning-7290 on 2023-09-12 14:41:42.

Just tell me if I’m the a-hole because I need to know.

Basically I went to visit my(26f) Mom(55) today, and I spent like 10 minutes in the bathroom. Well, after I come out she goes “did you pee?” and I was like… “what?” and she goes “did you pee? I didn’t hear anything in there” immediately I became uncomfortable and asked her why she thinks that is an acceptable question to ask. Remind you, she has a habit of being overly curious/wanting to know things that aren’t her business.

She then ignored me and tried changing the subject. When I brought it up again and said “why did you ask me that” she started freaking out saying that she feels like I’m always going to be offended by her and that she always does things to upset me.

My feelings from this were that I simply shared with her that she made me uncomfortable. AITA?

edit: I know some people asked if there would be any reason she’d be worried about my private behavior in the bathroom; the answer is: no, I never had any addiction problems or health issues.