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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Minimum-Badger3798 on 2023-09-12 16:19:58.

I know my parent are not perfect, they worked a ton to provide and were not around as much as they should have been. My brother was a nightmare though especially when he went into highschool. There was an issue every single week with him. You can name it he probably did it. The house was awful and constant yelling between him and my father.

At 17 he stole the car and ended up in a crash. I remember my parent yelling they where done and next thing he went to a boarding school.

He is 21 now and he is trying to come back into everyone’s lives. He called me today and I agreed to get dinner with him. Half way though it turned into a rant about our parents. I told him to at him being shipped off was the best day of my life and until he stopped blaming our parents this will not work out. He called me a jerk and left me with the bill.

My sister says I shouldn’t have done that.