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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/xomonicca on 2023-09-13 05:17:40.

So, the other day, I stumbled upon a porn video on my boyfriend’s laptop. The catch? It featured him and his ex-girlfriend.

Now, before you judge, let me explain the situation.We’ve been together for a while now, and I thought we had a solid relationship. But finding that video made me feel hurt and insecure.

It’s not like I’m against watching porn or anything, but seeing my partner getting it on with his ex just hit different, you know?In the heat of the moment, I made a snap decision and deleted the video. I didn’t want any reminders of his past relationships floating around while we were intimate. Plus, I thought it would help me feel more secure in our relationship.

Now, here’s where things get tricky. When my boyfriend found out, he was furious. He accused me of invading his privacy and destroying something that he valued. He argued that it was a part of his personal history and had sentimental value to him.

But here’s the thing: I didn’t do it out of spite or to be controlling. I did it because it made me uncomfortable and I wanted to protect our relationship.

EDIT:

1. We’re dating for 9 months.

2. I used his laptop to edit our photo shooting and then i saved it to documents where i found “the video”