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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Indigo-Urchin on 2023-09-13 14:21:35.

I’ve recently gone official with a man I’ve been dating for a couple of months. He’s kind, respectful and considerate, I really think he could be the one.

But something is eating at me.

I wanted to build slowly with this man, so we didn’t become intimate until after going exclusive. But between the first date and that point, I did see an old FWB a couple of times.

Back then I didn’t think anything of it, as I wasn’t exclusive. But I underestimated how much I would care for my boyfriend and I feel almost like I’ve cheated on him?

Have I done something wrong? Do I need to tell him? Will he end things with me?