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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Ithegingermonkey on 2023-09-13 14:39:28.

So I had a huge ass fight with a male coworker of mine, whom I heard complaining about me behind my back to HR, while I was standing right behind him.

He has done this multiple times, but i never said a thing as it was never on my face.

As soon as that person turned towards me, I told him to say things on my face and not to complain behind my back all the time. And i went on to told him that how he does it every time and how ugly it all is. I also told him that I can’t and won’t talk to him respectfully since he hasn’t done anything to earn it.

It was all over in 5 minutes.

Today at work i was told by a male senior that what I did I should have done politely and shouldn’t have created a scene, but I don’t feel bad about doing what I did and I am proud of standing for myself, cause these so called seniors never did anything to stop this man from practicing his ugly office politics.

I am tired of being told by Men at my work place that such incidents don’t create a clean and good image for me and that I shouldn’t do what i did.

Honestly I am too tired of office politics, and will never tolerate someone being a jerk to me all the time.

I am proud of what I did, for standing up for me and for telling a half ass man to stay in his limits.

If being loud is wrong then I am not even sorry.