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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Sea-Grapefruit-3052 on 2023-09-13 17:12:53.

Ive been intimate with 4 guys the past two years.

One was my serious boyfriend, one a friend, one a fling, and another a current talking stage.

All of them, and I really do mean ALL OF THEM, tried to choke me while being intimate the first time.

It doesn’t matter if we just met, if we’ve been dating for weeks, if we’ve known each other for a year, etc… they all tried to choke me and were very surprised when I said I DON’T LIKE IT.

The ONLY one that asked for consent beforehand was my boyfriend and when I said I didn’t like it he still tried it a second time but this time WITHOUT asking.

I just don’t understand?! Is it because of porn or it just a guy™️ thing??