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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Throwaway8privacy on 2023-09-13 16:32:19.

My wife 28F and I 30M have been together for almost four years.

Two weeks ago, we were blessed with a newborn (Jack), and since Jack’s birth, my wife has been calling me and complaining about trivial symptoms like headaches, feeling down, and abdominal pain, among others. At first, I tried to understand her situation and helped her alleviate her discomfort. This situation continued for a full two weeks.

Today, I was at work with a very important task that I needed to complete. She called me and started complaining again, saying that she felt discouraged and not “ worthy of being a mom” and wanted me to bring her some chocolates from the supermarket to alleviate her feelings.

I snapped at her and told her to stop acting like a crying baby and to start handling responsibilities, even our newborn isn’t as whiner as her Then, I hung up the phone.

When I returned home, she started giving me the cold shoulder and ignoring me all day.

And that got me wondering AITA?