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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/vanillalattequeen on 2023-09-13 17:12:35.

Apologies for the long post. Four years ago, my parents went out of town for the night, and I (21F) went to my cousin’s bachelorette and didn’t get home until 11-ish. My brother and his friend ‘Adam’ (20M) were both in the living room, both very drunk and playing video games. I say hello, and then take the dogs out to pee before going to bed. About an hour later, my bedroom door was opened, and I woke up to Adam stroking my arm as he laid in the bed beside me! I admit, I didn’t scream, but I was really scared for a few minutes as he talked about his ex, told me how pretty I was, and that we should “have some fun”. After I got over the shock, I got up and said that I wanted to show him something in the kitchen. He followed, then I locked the puppy gate we had at the time for our dog, separating him from the bedrooms, knowing he was too drunk to open it. I told my brother the next day, and he didn’t seem to care. I didn’t want to make a big deal out of nothing, so I didn’t tell my parents.

Which brings us to yesterday, when Adam and my brother were on the kitchen while I helped my mom with supper. Adam was talking about buying a new bed with his girlfriend, and asked me where I got my mattress, because it was very comfortable. Our mom was really confused as to when he was on my bed, and Adam got really quiet, and quickly left the house. I told her (as casually as possible) what had happened that night, and she got really angry and called my father on his way home from work. They have now since banned him from coming near the house, and my dad threatened him.

Among other names, my brother called me an asshole for ‘making such a big deal out of it’. Because nothing technically happened. AITA?