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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/bigsadboyo1 on 2023-09-14 06:00:49.

I’m 24. She is 28. This is my first apartment that is reasonable to have guests, and my first long term girlfriend.

She has left used tissue and sanitary products in the floor of my bathroom on two occasions. Both had bodily fluids on them, one blood and one mucus. I had just cleaned and had to wipe the floors and trashcan down again. I had to make a bucket jus tto do that. I don’t hate cleaning, but I would rather not clean and instead do other things. I am also often tired after work and even though I’m too tired to do other things I’d like to rest even if I’m bored.

I asked her if she could be sure to flush or dispose of sanitary products in the future. I said I don’t mind taking the bags to the dumpster but I would like them to only touch the grocery bags. She got upset and asked if she was disgusting to me. I said no.

I think there is a misunderstanding.