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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/PenAdministrative823 on 2023-09-14 04:02:10.

I teach high school full time and have four kids of my own so there are days that I come home and just want to cry. The biggest solace for me is a quiet bath full of hot water and bubbles. I swear I don’t need it more than twice a week yet every time I start a bath, my husband comes in and begs to join me. I always say no because when he gets in, it becomes a “please him” time and I just want to relax alone. I honestly do not enjoy the joint bath thing. But the denial really hurts him and he goes away upset. Then, I feel bad. Am I being the jerk?