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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/CuriousandConfused9 on 2023-09-14 16:15:00.

I (26F) am pregnant with my second child, we don’t yet know the gender of the baby but we will be finding out next week.

The topic of baby names recently came up in conversation with my family and I told them a girl name we really like and want to use, my sister (19F) looked disgusted “I claimed that name years ago! Don’t use my name!”

Well here’s the thing: I didn’t know she had claimed a name, nor did I know she even wanted kids! After I had my first baby my dad got carried away in excitement and asked her when she wants her first to which she replied “I don’t even know if I want them” - this wasn’t even a year ago yet.

I didn’t say anything but I did tell my husband, he suggested the same name but a longer version of it but I’m worried about the fact that the name is still technically the name she placed dibs on, but it’s also the only name my husband and I both like and agree on.

WIBTA for using it?