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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Lightgliterr on 2023-09-15 03:15:32.

Pretty comical but as the title says, I’m 23 and in grad school. I’ve actually never had an actual boyfriend. I was told by a guy recently the title statement, and previously I got these comments seemingly “jokingly” but when I say I’m not dating/ never dated then I get called “man hating feminist” or a lesbian. This is usually the case when a guy tries to make some sorta advance especially if I personally knew the guy… I don’t get this mentality? Is there a good response or just walk away? My mom told me to have a career first before I think about having kids or settling down which isn’t much of a concern because I’m a ‘late bloomer’ I don’t even want to date and all but I know I don’t want kids at least in my 20s 100 percent no. I get both “you are late behind get a man” and “focus on school” I kinda don’t know anymore lol.