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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Kind_Contract9912 on 2023-09-16 07:29:24.

I really don’t know who to talk to about this because I feel like it would gross people out. I (18f) have a boyfriend, Dylan, (19m) we’ve only been in a relationship for about a month and recently have started having sex. He’s super selfish in bed to the point where I just feel like I am being used. I was the person who took his virginity and I guess I feel kind of special about it in a way. He is a really good boyfriend outside of this. He holds doors open for me, takes me on dates three times a week and pays for everything. We really do have an incredibly healthy emotional relationship and have good boundaries. I had a breaking point tonight where after we started having sex I went to the bathroom and cried. He said he didn’t want to touch me in certain spots and said it was gross but wants me to do more to him but when I do that he doesn’t return the favor. I really need to know how to fix this problem or address it. Can someone maybe give me advice, I am currently sitting in the bathroom and I am so miserable.