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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/continueasplanned on 2023-09-16 10:52:16.

I need some advice on how to deal with this, because it is exhausting me and damaging our relationship.

It ranges from small things - not knowing where anything is in the house we share (and have shared for years), being unable to do the weekly shop etc etc. To the inability to plan anything for us as a couple without my sign off, despite being extremely capable of executing plans for himself or his friends.

An example from today was not knowing where something was that we needed. I have stopped telling him where things are, and just told him he has to look for it. This escalated as he states, given I know where things are I should just tell him- he does not see the problem despite me outlining it multiple times.

Does anyone has any advice on dealing with this?