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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/AdministrativeAd5732 on 2023-09-16 14:40:47.

My sister (f26) is getting married in a few weeks. I agreed to be the maid of honor, and she was- well we both were very excited. When we started to look for dresses she insisted to go to a store that was in a different town but I agreed because this was very important to my sister. We were inside the store and she was looking at dresses, she found a beautiful dress that looked stunning on her, but it was VERY expensive. She was super upset and asked me if I could help cover the expenses. I am in college, and paying for me and my boyfriend’s apartment and our pets at only 18, so it’s difficult for me to have extra money. I told her I wasn’t able to pay for it, and I was already paying my share of the bridal shower PLUS wedding gifts. She got mad, saying as the maid of honor it was MY RESPONSIBILITY to help her pay for HER DRESS. She now has been pestering our siblings to help her pay, and she even put the dress on hold, knowing she couldn’t afford it. AITA?