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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/l0n3l3y on 2023-09-16 05:03:03.

WIBTA for asking my fiance to reproprose cause he did it while I was using the toilet?

We have been together for almost 5 years. The ring is beautiful, it used to be his moms and I (F23) love the ring. He (m27) really is the sweetest man and this is an extremely rare flub from him. We had a lovely morning to ourselves romping around the bed if you get my jist. I go to the bathroom to clean up and use the toilet, as per the usual after this activity. I was taking a while and apparently he had been planning to propose that morning during cuddles.

Apparently I l took too long for his anxiety and he came in and proposed to me while I’m squeezing a log out so he didn’t chicken out. He was crying and it was very sweet, but its not really the best way to propose and didn’t feel very romantic? Its hilarious don’t get me wrong, and while it is sweet he made the effort and just couldn’t wait, its not an appropriate story to tell and I know people will want to know how he did it.

And thats not really a story id like to tell either. I love him and don’t want to break his heart, or make him feel like he messed up, but damn, not how I imagined being proposed to you know?