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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/throwraughh1 on 2023-09-16 17:33:40.

I need to vent about my bf making me late to my birthday dinner that I had been planning for well over a month. This happened last week but it’s still something that pisses me off.

For context: I had my birthday dinner on Thursday and my official celebration was on Friday. The dinner felt more intimate for me because I invited my parents that I rarely see and all of the people I consider myself to be close with.

While I was getting ready, my bf kept pestering me pointing out things that he thought didn’t look right on me and I got frustrated with him and closed the bathroom door. He said he was only trying to help me. He got lost on the drive because he wouldn’t listen to me when I kept saying what street the restaurant was on. When we finally got to there I think some people caught on to the fact I wasn’t in a great mood. My bf was dragging along and being standoffish, which didn’t make things better.

To make matters worse, when I told him to go home, he changed his act and started being more pleasant and talkative. By the end of the night he was running the show because I was no longer in the mood for socializing much and he filled in that space to relieve tension. He switched his tone when we got to the car and was completely silent. I told him he ruined my night. First he didn’t take me seriously, and then he decided to tell me he wanted to make me cum to make me feel better and asked me if that sounded good. I was so disgusted and disappointed by his behavior. The next day he woke me up with breakfast and was acting all like those typical bfs in romcoms, obviously he knew he fucked up.

I had been looking forward to my birthday this time and he tainted it and then acted like he was doing me a favor. I feel like he doesn’t understand how much this hurt me, and maybe I am overreacting some because my celebration the next day went really well, but he should’ve been more supportive.

Thanks for listening to my rant, but really, what is up with that? Because I know it’s a thing