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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Charming_Nature4440 on 2023-09-16 18:06:53.

AITA for being upset ?

My husband and I have a 5 year old daughter. She’s been sick lately (bad cold ) and yesterday before bed I asked my husband to turn off his white noise machine (which is basically a really loud fan in our bedroom) so that I would be able to listen for our daughter through the night in case she needs anything. (Her bedroom is right next to ours and if we leave the doors open I could hear her if she got worst). Well he didn’t like that idea and automatically said “well I’m just gonna take the fan and go sleep downstairs on the couch” I was flabbergasted because

1. How selfish to only think of his own comfort while our child is sick
2. Two people monitoring is always better than one so it didn’t even cross his mind that maybe he also needed to listen for her??
3. I worked early the next day and he would be off so he didn’t even think that maybe he should be the one to get up if she needed something ?

Anyways, he says I’m overreacting so I need t move on. AITA ?