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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/the-sea-of-chel on 2023-09-16 22:00:58.

This is such a long story. I’m so sorry im advance. I started dating this guy directly after he and I both got out of relationships. We tried to take it slow but we really liked each other. Well he told me that he was going on a trip to France this past week. He got back and came over. I was so happy to see him. We were kissing a lot and I was a bit clingy. Then I asked him about his trip. He dodged the question several times until I insisted. That’s when the bomb dropped. He told me he was on another continent seeing his ex to make sure he wasn’t still in love with her. I asked if they slept together and he said yes.

At that point, I told him to get out of my apartment. But once he left, he proceeded to text and call me almost nonstop. And ring my door a lot. He got into the apartment building and sat outside my door. He looked through the closet across the hall from my apartment because he knows I hide I key in there if I lock myself out. Luckily, I grabbed the key out of there before he got into my building. I had to call the police for him to leave, and give them a statement. They called his phone and told him to not contact me and to leave me alone. He agreed. They left. He didn’t comply with that request and kept texting me.

A couple hours later he came back and did the same as before. Just nonstop calls, texts, and bell ringing to try to get me to let him in. He told me he wouldn’t leave unless I blocked him because he didn’t believe I wanted him to leave. So I blocked him and he finally left. I don’t really know what to do. I mean I know I can call the police to report him if he comes back. And I will. Our mutual friend said he probably will keep trying to contact me but I hope not.

I really really liked him so this sucks that he did this. I know I’m in the right here. But before I blocked him, he kept saying things like “don’t ruin us” “I slept with her for us, so I knew I was over her” “I didn’t even cum so obviously I’m over her. It’s only you now”

I know he’s trying to manipulate me. And I won’t go back. But I really liked him so I’m so disappointed.

Edit: I’m sorry. I should have also included that this dude wanted to be a house husband and I’m a VERY high earner that wanted a house husband. Now he’s seeing his dream go up in flames 😂