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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/bonjour-mademoiselle on 2023-09-17 05:01:15.

My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me out of nowhere. I’ve been taking it very hard and am still in denial. When we were still together, one of his former hookups texted him that she didn’t like the guy she was at a club with, and he answered her right away because “she’s a friend and I don’t want her to be unsafe”.

Our relationship ended on okay terms. I held no anger, and he’s messaged me here and there. I was being harassed by a man on a night out, and out of instinct from the past 2 years I called my ex. He didn’t answer and I could see he was active online. He messaged me the next day to say he was asleep and if I was okay. I told him what happened and he said “a man is going to shoot his shot” and sent a shrug emoji. I realize my safety is not a big deal to him and the way he cared for an ex fling doesn’t apply to me.

From being harassed by men as a woman out without a man, to essentially being disposed of like garbage by someone I committed myself to for 2 years, I realize how little value I have as a single woman close to 30. I hate this. I don’t want to be here anymore.