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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Bitecutdegrade on 2023-09-17 08:52:29.

My husband met this girl online and says he’s infatuated with her. They’ve known each other for 2 weeks and haven’t even had a call or exchanged pics but apparently she’s telling him she loves him and they’re sexting a lot.

I told him either you cut things off with that girl or we are over but he said he needs her and that he would like both of us, but will choose her if forced to choose one.

I can’t understand how can he possibly choose someone he doesn’t even know over our 4 years together and our baby. Also how is he going to even meet her. She’s in eastern Europe and my husband isn’t working and has never worked. I’m the breadwinner, on mat leave now.

She seems like a scammer to me and I’m not sure if I should try to put this behind us when he figures it out. It’s too hurtful that he was willing to choose her over his own family. Would it be understandable if I call it quits or should I try to put this behind us for our son once he finds out she’s a scammer?