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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwaway35269269 on 2023-09-17 07:09:29.

My (32f) husband (36m) is really anti-body hair, I remember from years ago he stopped initiating sex when he noticed body hair, I asked him about it and he said its a huge turn off. Now I don’t really care about hair or no hair so I just did what he wanted me to do which was to shave.

Lately he has been really into growing a beard, he shows photos of random celebrities with beards and says how I feel about it. For me I really don’t like beards no reason, basically just like his problem with body hair, I have problem with facial hair. I asked him to please not grow it and shave what has been grown already. He denied saying that it’s his looks and he wants others to see his beard. I told him this basically is like me shaving my body for him, he goes on to say how he is the only seeing parts of my body and that nobody will notice me being shaved other than him. Which is untrue because I wear shorts a lot especially now that it’s summer and I play tennis with my friends, anyways that started a fight.

Well anyways i started not shaving my body after 3 days and I grow body hair fast I already haven’t shaved for 12/13? Days before the fight so i had a “beast legs” according to him. He called me ugly and I said I find him ugly for growing his beard. He still stands by his word. Well he kept leaving comments about my body hair and I finally snapped after a while and called him “a man-child for caring about small issues, and that maybe he should go work instead of worrying” he still wouldn’t be able to hide his ogre face and now he is mad at me and won’t talk to me.