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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Kim_mklay on 2023-09-17 11:17:47.

I ( 28F) was getting married and i wanted everything to be perfect so I had some rules .

One of the important rules was not bringing kids to my wedding for various reasons . They could destroy the deco and what would I even do if they got hurt .

When I told my family and guests about this rule they all seemed to understand expect for my (30F) cousin . She said I was being rude and this was a way to not make her come to the wedding because I knew how clingy her kids are .(her kids are 3&4 yrs old)

I simply told her no I want my family to be there but no kids. She still made a fuss out of it and asked me why I didn’t book a kids area . A kids area was out our budget so it was definitely no . I told if she can’t come it’s ok I understand .

The wedding day came and I didn’t expect her to come but she did and she came with her 2 kids . I immediately rushed her out of my wedding and told i wasn’t going to take this kind of disrespect. This made a whole scene delaying my wedding for 15 mins because a 30 Yr old woman who couldn’t follow simple rules .

Some of family thinks I’m a**hole but some think I did the right thing .