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If we have no plans and I ask him to go do something with me. He either reluctantly agrees and acts like it’s a chore, or he tells me no and if I try to push further then he snaps at me and tells me its “not his job to entertain me”
If we do have plans and I ask him when hes going to get off his games and go then I’m “rushing him” and he gets pissed off and we fight. Because the only acceptable time to do things is when HE wants to and if I question that I’m “impatient” and he doesnt like that.
If I go meet up with friends without him then he gets jealous and insecure and spends the rest of the day pouting and being rude to me. ESPECIALLY if there happens to be other men there.
If I do nothing and wait for him to initiate then he gets mad at me for not being ready the second he randomly decides he wants to go. Or he forgets entirely and then it’s also my fault for not reminding him.
I dont know what the hell I’m supposed to do.