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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Dependent-Stand-8707 on 2023-09-18 06:16:37.

So me and my ex-wife have 4 kids (21m,20m,19m,14f). We got divorced back in 2015 because of her infidelity and did not end in good terms. She has always tried to put an image of herself as well put off but in reality she relies on a man who she doesn’t even love and only wants for money. Our youngest recently told us that she wanted to throw a party for her 15th birthday. My ex started looking into venues without telling me about it and after she found one she liked, she called me to say I had to put money in to pay for it. I obviously told her no because I had never agreed to it and me and my current wife had already planned to throw my daughter a separate party which did not include her. I suggested that she throw another separate party for her to celebrate on her own with her side of the family but she got mad and berated me for being a horrible father and not providing for our child. My daughter is mad at me for not paying for the venue and she wont speak to me. The last thing she said was that she didn’t want the stupid party me and my wife wanted to do. Im so confused and a bit upset at the fact that they got mad at me for something that I never consented to. AITA?