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The original was posted on /r/nostupidquestions by /u/Significant-Use9699 on 2023-09-18 07:20:32.

Just saw a post earlier in the community, and need to say that I (F30) have kinda the same problem. I cannot say that I am ugly, but not Insta-beauty, and boobs are small. I am quite a clever person (not flexing, just working on my PhD degree), with a good sense of humour. But at the end… I don’t feel that anyone would date with me, I am more a buddy type (and I have a lot of male friends), it’s nice to hangout with me but “you know that nothing can happen between us, right” (direct quote)

So, what should I do to become not only interesting as a person, but also interesting as a woman? I kinda suspect that men are looking for some “secretes” in female partners, but wtf is that, how to learn to be a mysterious woman?

Upd. I realised that I used a wrong word… For me desirable is something more than just a hookup. You know, i imagine it’s about being someone you want to have by your side for life, like desirable in a long term, not out of hunger:(