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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/hasura1001 on 2023-09-18 14:04:23.

i have been dating him for a couple months, in the beginning he would shower every time he saw me. but now that we spend a lot of time together and sleeping over, he goes 2/3 days without showering even when we are outside all day hiking and doing stuff, he also almost never brush his teeth, i keep asking him to do those things and he refuses. i told him it bothers me and even when it comes to sex its dangerous to me to get a bacteria from him. Am i an insensitive asshole?