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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Chemical_Weight_4716 on 2023-09-19 01:41:20.

So like the title says, I googled " Don’t give men what they want" and almost every single result was twisted and about what women can do to ensure they give men what they want. What the fuckity shit ladies?!

I cant possibly sit here and believe that this is whats offered on the subject on for once we say HELL NO to whatever it is men are demanding.

Im googling this literally because I realize that my mistake in dating is accommodation. I excel at giving my all to whomever asks. Problem is … men want want want want want want want but they REFUSE to even meet bare minimum standards.

Like bitch you havent cooked a meal or cleaned the toilet 1 time in SIX YEARS. I AM NOT YOUR FUCKING MOM.

Two adults fuck the bathroom up and only one cleans it. Two adults need breakfast and dinner and only one budgets, shops, pays and cooks it.

Fuck. Off.

The next man Im with… is going to be someone who cannot stop showing me in actions real time just how much they can do and will do.

Im NOT going into it thinking of what or how I can give them what they want. Thats why I googled it. Now Im fuckin enraged at the results.

I cant be the only woman whose decidedly NOT GOING TO GIVE MEN WHAT THEY WANT as a template for a " relationship" because from what I can tell so far, what men want is MOMMY.

Im NOT a mother. Im certainly not my partners mother either.

So until I meet a man who wants what I WANT… Fuck him, fuck this, and fuck that. I will keep sampling the dating pool til I find a quality candidate. But FUCKED if I will ever EVER approach it from " what does He want?" Itll be " hmm what does He want compared to me cuz what I want matters".