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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/throwaway292375 on 2023-09-19 14:22:33.

I (M17) have been dating my girlfriend (F18) for 5 months. I prefer to dress more feminine. To an extent at least, I don’t really wear skirts or dresses often.

I didn’t think my gf had a problem with it especially because when I met her I was dressed pretty fem and I had light makeup on. A few weeks ago she asked me if I could dress more masc instead and I did for like a week. I just prefer dressing fem way more because it’s fun and I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal.

When i told her I’d prefer to just stick to my style she got really annoyed and screamed at me that I didn’t love her and I wasn’t being considerate of her feelings.

She hasn’t spoken to me since and she won’t answer my calls and texts. Am I the asshole here? I really like her and I didn’t mean to uspet her I honestly didn’t think it would matter to her so much.

edit: thank you for all your comments seriously helped me out a lot