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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Adept_Ad_4256 on 2023-09-19 14:57:00.

My son got married a few years ago, he lives on the other side of the country then us. He got a great job opportunity after college so he moved down. Two years ago he got married to Jenny and what I heard it was a beautiful wedding. So the whole issue started when we were trying to get there. The wedding was on Saturday and our plane left Thursday night. Well it got delayed and then delayed about four more times ( Friday morning at this point) and then all the plane got canceled due to a storm.

When that happened it was clear we were not leaving and driving there would take too long and we would still miss the ceremony. So we informed him and he was pissed. We sent our well wishes and we could FaceTime in if he wanted. He told us no and we saw a video of his getting married.

Now the present day issue any times we get an argument or he wants us to do something he pulls up we missed his wedding card. We were taking over the phone we were talking about hosting thanksgiving this year. He got mad saying why won’t you visit us and I told him we don’t have the money for the trip and we just saw him in July. We got in a argument and he pulled the you missed our wedding it’s the least you can do. I told him enough and that he needs to get over it. He called me a jerk. My daughter learned about it as she is on our side but I don’t know.