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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/outofsightoutofmind3 on 2023-09-19 19:45:28.

My boyfriend (23m) and I (22f) have been together for 2 years. It was his birthday a week ago and I surprised him with a party with all of his college friends and work friends. The party took so long to prepare and I was so excited.

When he got there, he was super excited and immediately went to his friends and I understood that because he hadn’t seen them in so long. After a while, I went to see him while he was with some college friends and asked him if he was having a good time. He pushed me away saying that he was in the middle of a conversation and to stop bothering him. He told me that in front of all his friends and I had never been so ashamed. So, I told him to stop talking to me that way especially in front of people. He ignored me and continued talking to “his boys”.

I was hurt, so I just stormed off and left his party, even tough I was the one who prepared it for him. He got home the morning after (he didn’t tell me where he slept), and told me that he couldn’t believe that I left like that and “embarrassed him” in front of his old buddies. He never even thanked me for the party. It’s been a week and some people told me that I overreacted and others told me I didn’t react enough. Anyway, AITA for walking out of his birthday party?