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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/backwoodzzbabyy on 2023-09-20 05:40:44.

I’m two months pregnant with our baby who I unfortunately had to make the decision to have an MA (medical abortion) and my abortion is tomorrow. in the days leading up to just a few minutes ago, he’s been very moody since I arrived at my mums in a legal state to have the procedure, since I’ve been more busy than usual with family among other things.

because of this, he goes off for no reason pointing blame until I feel horrible, but making me feel like I’m making myself into the victim for being upset at his accusations which are never even close to true. example, I had a friend from high school I no longer speak to (we don’t text or call) who likes to comment on my tiktoks sometimes, nothing weird or flirty, just small interactive gentures that show we’re still cool with each other like “lmao 💀” “I don’t miss when I worked for that company either” things along those lines. my boyfriend, however, has thrown this in my face more than once, never claiming I’m cheating but asking why he’s commenting, how we know each other and why he’s even on my page. may I add a good chunk of my boyfriends friends and acquaintances are female, which ive never really minded since i trust him, but god forbid another man even speak to me.

I’ve tried reassurance but he always finds whatever I say to poke holes in and make me out to seem like a liar or a bad person. tonight however, we got into another argument where he keeps shifting blame to make me look and feel horrible and then he randomly says “you’re acting like a bitch.” with my response to that being “this conversation is over. I’m not getting called a bitch by own boyfriend while I’m pregnant and doing everything I can, I’m not getting treated like I’m just a other fucking bitch to you, I’m going to bed goodnight.” and I ghosted him.

I don’t know if it was the right decision, he has bpd and a few other mental problems and I feel like if I don’t stick with him thru it, maybe I am a bitch but on the other hand I too am very mentally ill and I learned how to better myself in a way that I can leave other people’s guilt out of it because it’s never necessary and only hurts people. I’m sorry this post is so long and such a mess but I really don’t know if what I want to do is warrented