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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Castiza on 2023-09-20 07:53:58.

I (30f) regularly have friends over to stay the night. For a long time, I utilized our large couch for any guests that wanted to stay over (it’s pretty comfy and I personally have slept nicely on it). However, I have recently furnished my son’s room with a bigger bed for once he is older and moves out of our room. I allow guests to use it, however I have noticed that one of my friends (27f) has used it to hook up. Note: this is not really a guest bed, but the bed that my son will be sleeping on. I also won’t be pushing my son out of his room for guests in the future once he is able to sleep in his bed.

So would I be the asshole if I established boundaries for his bed? I don’t want to be the sex police, but it’s also not what I established as a guest bed. I wouldn’t care if it was truly a guest room/guest bed.