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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Hornyallday_o on 2023-09-20 19:29:24.

I don’t kbow about anybody else, but the amount of mem who think it’s our job to show them how to clean themselves, or even worse, clean them ourselves, is just awful and disgusting.

I was reading yet another post about a young woman talking about how she went to give her bf head, but when she got closer to his penis it smelled so bad it made her gag. And in roll the man-children comments telling her to take a shower with and either “show him how to wash it” or “wash it for him”.

Like WTF!!! Why is it her job to that? And why are they even suggesting that?? Why can’t men wash their own nasty junk? Good lord. Made me so irritated. I have NEVER in my life expected my partner to wash my vagina for me. I have also never had to have a partner show me how to wash it. I can’t even imagine thinking that somehow it should be something he needs to do.

And this is just another form of incompetence on the male side. Just another thing they want us to do for them that they should already know, or could learn on their own. But don’t want to.

It’s not our job to make sure you have basic hygiene habits or to help you develop them. And stop expecting us to. If you’re old enough to bathe by yourself, your old enough to clean yourself and to know how to do that. And if you don’t know, there’s this thing called the internet that can help.