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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/throwawamdndnndnd on 2023-09-20 19:35:42.

Hello! So I don’t know what to do. Around 2 years ago I finally broke a toxic relationship. Current boyfriend is sweet to me and stuff except for one stuff: He gets grumpy after sex IF it doesn’t go his way.

I initially ignored him, but last Saturday was something else. We were both a little bit drunk (I think I was a little more drunk since alcohol hits me harder because of meds - but not too much that I couldn’t consent to the act).

We were having sex and he was a little annoyed that I was kind of sloppy, he was too but I didn’t say anything. At one point I had my legs up, he switches me to one side and my legs hit his face. He complains that I kicked him and I said I was sorry but my legs were up and he was the one to move me, so it wasn’t intentional.

We kept having sex and then he mentioned something of “never having sex again while we’re drunk” which I think it’s fair.

However, after he finished (I came too but earlier) he was mad at me and ignored me for a while.

As I said before, he also gets grumpy if he finishes before he wanted too or not in the way he wanted. It never affected me before but after Saturday I feel sad and without any desire of even seeing him.

I’ve talked to him about him getting grumpy before but it doesn’t seem to change.

What can I do?