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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Any-Temperature-8825 on 2023-09-20 22:39:47.

I(m27) started dating my gf (f25) 1.3 years ago and things are going great between us. We also live very close to each other like(my flat is exactly 560m from her flat). The only thing that some time bothers us is our income disparity. I make almost 3 times more than her and I also have intraday trading accounts so I also earn money from their too. It some time makes unbalanced in our relationship but I am always very mindful to treat money carefully arround her. I don’t spend carelessly in front of her and I pay majority of our dates and all.

In 2021 I bought a MacBook pro and after using it for almost 1.5 yr I don’t like working on it anymore and i decided to give it to my younger sister (18f). I know it sounds snobbish but I wanted to build a gaming pc for me and now the pc part are all time low price so i am building a very expensive gaming pc. After booking everything online I told my gf about this and she started telling me how much I am spending on something when I already have a expensive laptop. I told her everything that you can’t game on mackooks and it’s work laptop and I need a gaming pc for me but she kept going on and on about how unnecessary it is. Finally after half and hour i just told her if it’s bothering you that much don’t pay attention to it and it’s my money I can use it however I want. Again she got emotional and left. Now she is giving me cold shoulder and I am feeling very complicated.