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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/distorted-laughter on 2023-09-21 00:51:52.

Alright this is kind of a new thing going on I (26F) have been talking to this guy (32) from tinder we met last week ended up hooking up etc. Immediately he kept bringing up possibly dating and that he wanted to bring me to social stuff for his work place, he’s a teacher, it seemed sweet in the moment. Until he has mentioned that for the last 2 years he’s been a side piece technically to someone in a polycule. I know this is all still new and even told him flat out if you want me to be serious about you then try to be serious about me. Not to mention the potential health risks this puts me in, not to mention the shame and trauma I already had earlier this year when I caught an STI from someone. I feel like I want to give him a chance because I do like him and we talk a lot but is it fair for me to keep my options open too? (Also he’s active on Reddit I would have put this in dating advice but I feel like he would see it)