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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/ionlyshootfilmbro on 2023-09-21 16:10:08.

Hello!I am a 22-year-old college student who is “friends” (or so I thought) with a guy who initially seemed decent. We got along very well on a solely Platonic level at first, but recently he’s been acting quite strangely towards me.

He wants to meet up alone all the time but always turns up late (approximately 30 minutes to 1 1/2 hours). I (unfortunately) am a people-pleaser and thus tolerated his behaviour until now. Setting boundaries does not come easy to me, but I am working on it. We also went to a museum together once, and he always pulled my arm quite forcefully whenever he wanted to “show” me something. As one might assume, I felt extremely uncomfortable during the entire trip. Last week, he sent me a message in which he asked if I wanted to go to Paris with him. I will definitely not go on this trip, there’s no chance. Absolutely not.

The scariest thing happened today when he decided to send me a r*pe-themed “meme” about a woman being “saved” by a gay male r*pist who r*ped the guy who initially wanted to r*pe the woman. This is beyond messed up, and I’m just so angry and scared. I don’t know what to do.

I also should mention that all this started after I told him that I’m sure that I am a lesbian. I don’t want to go back to university because I am so scared that something really, really horrible could potentially happen. He has become quite passive-aggressive and has expressed many times how his virginity and not being able to get laid despite being bisexual frustrate him. This guy also knows that I’m autistic, struggle with social cues, and am generally deemed “too nice” by others.

I am not sure how to proceed and would appreciate any advice. My best friend and my mom already support me, but the advice that they can give me is limited because they have never experienced something like this. I am so, so scared.