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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Solid-Pass8944 on 2023-09-21 21:04:55.

My daughter is getting married, and she wishes to have a destination wedding and told her no. My wife feels I should do it because we can afford it, but I find it to be a pointless showing of wealth. Now my daughter is not talking to me, nor is my wife. Which got me thinking should I bite the bullet and essentially burn money, and alienate family members to make my daughter’s dream wedding a reality?

Edit: Forgot to mention she wants to get married in NZ, we also are from NY.

Edit: Forgot to mention she is currently asking for around 200k. This is not counting what guests would have to pay to come.