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The original was posted on /r/transeducate by /u/Quiet_Dirt_3985 on 2023-08-12 19:54:35.

I 43f and my husband 48m have a 19f who now want to change her name and use the pronouns he / him which I’m fine with but he still dresses feminine and has a Boyfriend so I’m very confused I would ask him but we are not speaking right now because everything I say he say I’m criticizing him .We are having a family event soon and they are coming and I know theirs going to be a lot of questions afterwards from family and I’m not sure what to say .