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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/Ambitious-Teach-9008 on 2023-09-22 14:28:14.

The short: my FWB stormed out of my house calling me crazy and saying I’d be single forever bc I didn’t agree to a sexual act when we were already having sex .

The long:

Last night, despite strong gut feelings screaming at me to stay away from a man (for no particular reason, just felt icky about him), I let my FWB come over for the first time in weeks.

I’ve since stopped taking birth control for personal reasons, so I made him use a condom. I got off, but he was having trouble getting off with the condom on.

He tried to go inside me without the condom to which I gave him a firm No, despite him giving me the ~bUt iLl PuLl oUt~ bullshit.

Then, clearly annoyed, he said “then you’re gonna have to suck me off”. I was fine with that. Until he started forcing my head down on his dick. Now, I’m not a pornstar. I have a gag reflex that I’d rather not trigger while I’m naked in bed with someone.

I backed off and said, “no, I’m not doing that”.

He said, “I’m just trying to show you what I like! I did what you like, and you came, now why can’t you do what I like?!”

I just repeated myself and said “I’m not doing that”.

To which he said, “I thought you said you were a freak??”

This pissed me off to the extend where I didn’t want to have sex at all anymore. I said, “I’m done. You’re pissing me off now.”

He called me selfish, told me I should be doing what he likes bc he did what I like, then jumped out of bed and pointed at me saying, “don’t ever hit me up again after this. You’re crazy and I can see why you’re single.”

After he repeated “you’re crazy” several times, I told him to get the fuck out of my house. He stormed out, leaving his condom on the floor, telling me that I’d be single forever.

I know this dude’s an asshole and I will never beg for any kind of forgiveness, but I could use some comfort. Being told I’m crazy hit me where it hurts. I know he’s a dumbass, but shit. I’m hurt.

Also, life lesson: trust your gut. Even if you don’t have the evidence to prove it.