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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Entire-Pickle-2423 on 2023-09-23 20:51:04.

My (F26) sister Ella (F24) was a teen mom. My parents were devastated when she told them she is pregnant at 15. Icing on the cake was she did not know who the father is.

My parents did not have much money to support her and baby. Ella begged to keep the baby. After many arguments, our parents agreed to support her. Mom had to quit her job to take care of the baby and all this drained their savings. Ella could not go to college and had to work at a restaurant to support her and her baby Claire.

Due to this, they could not support me. I worked really hard to get a partial scholarship and took out loans to cover the rest. I worked to support myself through school. Luckily I got a good job right after and lives independently.

Last week Ella called me crying asking if she could move in with me. My parents were kicking her and Claire out because she got pregnant again and would not tell anyone who the father is. I told her no.

She kept begging saying how I had a job and a home. How she cannot support herself and her two kids on the restaurant job. She kept pushing through without listening to me.

I told her I would not support her. I have my own loans to pay off and expenses to manage. That she should have thought of it before she made them. That she ruined her own life.

She called me a cold selfish b_word for not caring about them .

AITA?