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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/findingparrot on 2023-09-24 12:55:29.

I (22f) am I the youngest of 4 siblings (30m 28f 25f). My life was as normal as it could get. Normal parents who were supportive and sometimes had arguments etc etc. My two oldest siblings loved me but usually talked more with my other sis as she was more outgoing, talkative n all ( I am much more introverted and don’t like talking much). My sister (25f) n me never saw eye to eye though. We all always had fights but she would often say how I was adopted so I couldn’t relate to her n all. I always brushed it off as a joke cuz everyone says that to their siblings. Yesterday we had a family dinner for her birthday with my brother and my eldest sister. My other sis was talking about how her boyfriend had brought a bouquet of different types of daisies ( which picked out early in the morning to surprise her it seems) and how she was irritated that he didn’t spend on an elegent bouquet instead ( It wasn’t as professionally made) For context he has brought her other presents as well. I commented on how she should be happy he personally picked out flowers for her and she EXPLODED. She commented on how I’ll be sooo happy with something super cheap cuz that’s where I came from and I asked her what she meant. She started laughing and said that this is day was always meant to come and looked at my parents and told them to tell me how I was adopted. They and my siblings tried to shut her up but she just went on and on and I asked my parents if it was true. They just looked at each other and I got to know the truth. I told them to excuse my and just went back home. I couldn’t process how they hid it from me. I do not mind being adopted and don’t really care I’m not biologically theirs but the fact they hid it from me hurts. I got a text from my sis after 2 hrs on how I make all situations to be about myself and how I stole her limelight on her birthday. So Reddit AITA? I don’t feel like I am but my parents still haven’t responded to my texts. English also isn’t my first language.