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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/GazelleNo1616 on 2023-09-24 10:26:59.

I have a tradition that once a year I will take my niece(14) out. We go shopping and I buy everything she wants then we get dinner and ice cream.

Recently my brother got married and now has an stepdaughter(15) and my SIL thinks we should include her and take her with us. I told her that I don’t have a problem with taking her with us however she needs to pay me for everything she buys and her dinner. I will pay for the ice cream myself.

She thinks I’m an asshole because I don’t ask my brother to pay for my niece