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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/of_sufi on 2023-09-24 16:59:05.

Hi, so I met this guy on a dating app. I liked him. We vibed. But we are from different faiths and don’t see any future together so we have decided to have a casual affair.

He is the first guy I’ve slept with. When we had sex for the first time it happened organically.

My first experience was great but it bothered me that he didn’t go down on me. I went down on him and he loves it so I’m happy to do it. We have had sex twice and made out once, but he hasn’t fingered or even touched my “v” at all. I should talk to him about this. But my lack of experience and shyness is getting in the way. What if he says that he finds it gross? Or what if he says he doesn’t know how to do it? I can’t teach him! I’m worried that I won’t know how to handle his response.

Would love some advice on how to ask for what I want and how to handle his negative response, if he responds negatively at all.

Thanks :)