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The original was posted on /r/twoxchromosomes by /u/MothmanAndCatboy on 2023-09-25 03:38:53.

I’ve just had my first taste of what my partner’s family dynamic is like, and it is so much worse than I was prepared for. After witnessing my partner with her family for an extended period of time I’m having doubts about what my future with her is going to look like. I don’t want to live my life with her if she’s going to keep her abusive toxic family in her life, because I don’t want to deal with them in mine. It sounds selfish, so I don’t want to break up over this, but I can’t marry her if it means having to be around them.