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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Jealous_Lunch5538 on 2023-09-25 02:50:26.

Last year, my sister called me and told me that her two cats haven’t been eating for four days. I took them to the vet who after some tests said that the cats were refusing to eat because they were dehydrated. Fortunately he was able to save them by giving them some fluids. I paid the bills.

She didn’t ask for any further financial help until yesterday.

Yesterday my sister asked me if I can help her pay for a nose job. I asked her if she’s having difficulty breathing or anything but she told me she just feels self-conscious about her nose. She said that since I paid for the cats’ treatment she thought I would help her with this too. I told her no and when she asked why, I said “Your cats needed that treatment. You don’t need the nose job.”

My sister was really upset, telling me I have no right to say that when I don’t understand how much appearance means to her, and that a guy that she liked rejected her ‘probably because of the nose.’